Meet photographer Alyson Aliano
We discovered the fascinating project titled “Real Mother” by photographer Alyson Aliano. This initiative explores the essence of motherhood and what it signifies to Aliano as well as to everyone else. The project highlights what it truly means to be a mother, encapsulating experiences of biological, step, lesbian, and adoptive mothers. Through Aliano’s powerful imagery, we connect with the precious moments and profound bonds depicted, making us even more excited for this interview!
Describe your typical day.
As a freelance photographer, I don’t have a standard daily routine. For instance, tomorrow I have a morning shoot starting at 6:45 AM, and I hope to fit in some exercise afterward. The day after, I won’t be working for a client, so I’ll create a test shoot for my portfolio and also mentor a student through an Independent Study program at The School of Visual Arts in New York.
How did you start in photography and launch the “Real Mother” project?
My journey into photography began during high school, where I first delved into art. I picked Art History as my major at Boston University, following my parents’ wishes for a liberal arts education. However, I soon realized my passion lay elsewhere. At 19, I transferred to The School of Visual Arts and obtained my Bachelor of Fine Arts in Photography. The “Real Mother” project originated when I became a stepmother to twins, who were then 9 and are now 19. I have been actively shooting editorially and working in commercial photography since 2001.
What does the future hold for this project?
The initial vision for this project was to create a monograph that features interviews with mothers alongside their photographs. I have applied for grants to revisit and capture these mothers with their children as they are today. There are numerous ways I plan to expand and evolve this project—one idea includes a video component, and I’m also keen to broaden the subject matter to reflect a wider array of family dynamics.
What inspires you?
My motivations are drawn from a myriad of sources—art from various creators and personal experiences. The impetus for “Real Mother” was driven by my desire to comprehend parenting and the essence of motherhood. Typically, my photography is fueled by a curiosity to explore and understand specific themes.
Can you suggest places for moms or women in Los Angeles (or your hometown)?
In Los Angeles, I recommend visiting Wi Spa, a delightful Korean spa that’s perfect for unwinding with a friend.
Any recommended spots for kids in Los Angeles (or your hometown)?
In Los Angeles, my favorite places for kids include Griffith Observatory, the Los Angeles County Museum of Art (LACMA), and the beach. In New York City, the Museum of Natural History is a beloved spot.
Your essentials or must-haves (beauty, objects, keepsakes, food, etc.)?
My essentials include a best friend, a pair of high-top sneakers, and a trusty denim jacket.

